Screaming Toddler!

Dear Fany,

How can I better handle the screaming toddler in line at Walmart who wants a sucker that I am not willing to buy?

He probably screams for treats because at least one time you or someone else was willing to buy it for them. But, all of us parents have given in at one time or another. You will need to be committed to ignoring their fits and holding your ground for a few screaming visits until they realize that it will not work. I suggest speaking to your children before you ever go into the store. If they are old enough to understand you, explain to them that you cannot buy anything extra for them in the store. Remind them what you expect before the temptation arises. It is a good idea in any tempting situation. Give them a list of things to help you find. It might help them if you tell them you can only buy what is on the list. If that doesn't work-duct tape is a universal mouth quieter! LOL